These are the Minecraft figures we eventually built!
Have you ever had one of those days or moments where you think you know where things are going and then they just go completely sideways?
One day last week, I asked Z what he wanted to do for our morning time together. I gave him some options and he came up with his own idea – build Minecraft figures out of sculpey. WOW! His own idea and it was to make something!
While he was playing I got all of the materials out and ready – I even had a neat idea to use wood building blocks and hot glue to make the figures.
Before the conversation about building Minecraft figures, we had been exploring a book on Lord of the Rings, which was clearly enthralling for him. He told me he needed to go play Lego for a while (likely because he had some great new ideas for play from the book).
I called him, said I was ready to make the Minecraft figures.
He didn’t come down. Said he needed more time. I waited, sat there, waiting.
He still didn’t come down.
So I felt inspired to start and do some exploring without him. I thought it would be helpful for him to see what the possibilities were. So there I was, alone, gluing and painting and reading about Mine Craft figures. Fun.
Finally, I decided to grab my project journal and go up and sit with him. I plopped down on his carpet and was immediately transported into his remarkable world of creativity.
He was building armies, checking to make sure the teams were evenly matched, he had a king and had built amazing weapons and armour for each of them…all out of Lego. I turned on my voice recorder on my phone to capture his storytelling, wrote in my project journal and grabbed my camera.
I offered open ended questions – what are they battling over? who’s winning? – which seemed to expand his play and help to evolve the story a little. But mostly I observed and took photos.
I then printed the photos and summarized the story into a comic book for him. My intention was to allow him to witness his own creativity and for him to see another form of expression that is available to him.
I was pretty proud of my effort. I was proud that I let go of needing to do the Mine Craft making.
If I hadn’t let go, I would have missed out on this amazing story and scene he had created.
I was so excited to give him this comic book the next day!
This is the comic book that documents the story he created with photos from his Lego creations.
And….. he wasn’t interested in it at all.
I guess that’s just another reminder to let go of my expectations. I made it for him because I was excited to, but I’m only hurting myself if I hold onto the expectation that he must be appreciative and love it just because I wanted him to.